4 Tips for Brides-to-Be Who Are Feeling the Pressure
When it comes to wedding planning, there are loads of things that you need to think about. At the end of the day, you're planning a huge event all by yourself, from lots of people and it can get to you.
I know, we have been on the receiving end of the entire process and it's not always smooth-running. If you're feeling as though the pressure is getting to you, especially as a bride-to-be, here are some of my tried-and-tested tips for relieving some of that stress and pressure as your day draws closer.
1. Have a list of priorities
No matter how far along the planning process you are, there is always a need to have a list of priorities when it comes to wedding planning. The higher up on your list it is, the more time you need to spend on making it happen.
I found a timeline to be useful, full of information about when things need to be sorted by and also when payments are due. It's imperative to have your priorities laid out accordingly. Those priorities might be different for different people, so personally work this out in line with your own event.
By doing this, you'll be able to tick more things off the list, without having to worry about the day getting closer and you know you've not made the plans that are needed. It's also not going to be a nice feeling if you come to book something and they're busy on your day. Prioritise to avoid disappointment as well as to relieve pressure and stress.
2. Make sure communication is on point
Nothing is more infuriating and more time-consuming than a complete lack of communication between yourself and your vendors, venue, registrars or vicars and priests. Not only does it drag the whole process along, but it's also not clear-cut for anyone involved.
This can only add to your stress. If the lines of communication are completely open and everyone knows it, then it can help to prevent a lot of crossed wires and misinterpretations along the way.
3. Have a 'Plan B'
I know this is much easier said than done, but make sure that you have a plan in place for when things don't quite go to plan. Not everything will go as smoothly as you want it to. No matter how organised you are or how much control you think you have, there will always be a curve ball thrown at you from somewhere.
Just remember that a plan B is always a good thing to have in place. Also, it's comforting to keep in mind that your guests had no idea what your plans were in the first place, so they'll never notice something that didn't quite pull off on the day. The day is about you and your spouse, everyone else is just along for the ride.
4. Make some time for self care
Something that I found extremely useful when wedding planning was carving out some time for myself. Whether I was off to the hairdressers or getting my nails done, it was something I was doing for myself and no one else. It gave me some time away from the whole process, but instead of stress and pressure, I felt happiness and excitement when I took some time for self care.
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I hope you enjoyed this blog post and that you found it useful? Let me know in the comments below what your tips are for stress-free wedding planning and I will see you again very soon with a brand new blog post!
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